I had only seen them in pictures.  To see a yoke between two oxen close-up really stirred me.

They were stuck and they accepted it, I think.  At least they didn’t struggle.  I feel that way sometimes.  But I still struggle.  I mean, a yoke, even self imposed, doesn’t feel natural.  We need to be careful of what we accept.

Sometimes, you can get used to carrying ‘it’ all by yourself.  I started carrying yokes burdens when I was 12 years old.   I had to grow up quick.  Although unintentional, people let me down.

This translated later in my life to ” I ‘have’ to do it all on my own because everyone disappoints. ” (My big brother pointed this out to me the last time I saw him.)  Many times I won’t even give anyone the chance.  I still do that.  I don’t mean to.  At least not consciously.

A yoke figuratively

is a symbol of slavery;

or a burden;

or bondage to sin

When you see that the oxen cannot turn away from each other and are bound together, it is a great illustration of this.  They want to turn away but they can’t.  They are immobilized.  I sometimes feel like that under my worries, overwhelming ‘to-do’ lists, family members health problems, and on and on….

In experiencing my friends separation from her husband and seeing the stress, sorrow, and strain of being unequally yoked with someone, the pictures make this scripture clearer.

It IS a burden.  These yokes we choose, craft and create.

Yoke here means service.  It would seem that Jesus is the master and we are the servants with the lighter yoke.  But I recently read that farmers would put a trained older oxen with a younger inexperienced oxen so that the younger one would learn from the older wiser one just by walking with him.

Visualizing Jesus being the wise farmer and being right by our side taking the brunt and majority of the burden makes me see this in a new light.  He tells us to ‘learn from Him’.   He is walking with us!

What a beautiful visual for weary me.

yoke  defined n.

When things are overwhelming and I cannot possibly do it on my own, (and even when I think I can),  I must remember what Jesus said…