I am learning some things about this, though. It has really been on my heart lately.
Since then I have tried to make a conscious habit of even chewing slower.
I have gotten better at not rushing over the last couple of years. I have had to purpose myself. I am learning to move slower and stop to appreciate more.
Jesus was busy but He was never said to be in a hurry.
I see some moms rushing from one activity to the next and know I have been there as well.
Just last week I was dealing with our local county government in trying to secure a building permit online for 2 days.
One of them decided I had a problem and advised that I would need to “hurry down to the office ASAP” because I would need to get there before “the ONLY man who could possibly help me left” or else I wouldn’t be able to get a permit that day.
I decided to trust. We went down to the office at a casual pace.
After all of that, there wasn’t even a problem at all and no need to rush.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11
“Delight yourself in the LORD and He will give you the desires of your heart” Psalm 37:4.
When he originally wrote this essay in 1967; email, the internet, chat rooms, blogs, face book, twitter, iphone, ipad and the countless other time suckers weren’t even around. It makes what he said even more applicable to our lives.
There are several points worth mentioning that Mr. Hummel speaks of that I found to be especially good: (all quotes come from his essay unless otherwise noted)
- Even though Jesus had a short life of 33 years, he still finished what God had for Him to do. John 17:4 (NIV) “I have brought you glory on earth by completing the work you gave me to do.” “… His life was never feverish; He had time for people. He could spend hours talking to one person, such as the Samaritan women at the well. His life showed a wonderful balance, a sense of timing.” He resisted the urgent and did the important.
- We need to acknowledge our need of God as our instructor and supplier. “When we fail to wait prayerfully for God’s guidance and strength we are saying, with our actions, if not our lips, that we do not need Him.”
- “The need itself is not the call; the call must come from the God who knows our limitations.” and our strengths. (my words) Psalm 103:13,14 (NIV) “As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust.”
- “…resist the temptation to accept an engagement when the invitation first comes over the telephone.” Ask and give yourself a day or two of prayer for guidance before you commit.
- When praying, list things you need to complete each day in their priority, keeping in mind previous commitments. Pray for direction. Like a general drawing up a battle plan for the battlefield; “he doesn’t postpone basic decisions until the firing starts.”
- We are to wait patiently for God’s instructions and do this by discerning His will by a consistent life of daily prayer. Listen. In order to be an effective server, we must prayerfully wait on God to impress on us His truths concerning ourselves and what He wants us to complete. Mr. Hummel likens it to a time out in a game; a time to stop, regroup, catch your breath, and make a new strategy. “He will free us from the tyranny of the urgent, free us to do the important, which is the will of God.”
- Don’t have such a rigid schedule against the clock that you cannot allow an interruption or an unexpected call that God may have put in your day.
- “It isn’t God who loads us until we bend or crack with an ulcer, nervous breakdown, heart attack, or stroke. These come from our inner compulsions coupled with the pressure of circumstances.” Matthew 11:30 (NIV) “For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
It isn’t that I never move fast anymore. I am defintely expiditious.
I get a lot accomplished during my days.
We went to Washington, DC recently, and we fit a lot in! Homeschooling 3 girls, or trying to get us all ready to go somewhere sometimes involves a bit of hustling. 🙂
It is just that my perspective has changed. I am not as stressed.
I have not ‘arrived’ but am making a concerted effort.
And I know the direction I want to go. I still give my day to God and then snatch it back sometimes. But I am more aware.
Even managers in the business world use these words of wisdom to effectively lead and not manage by crisis. Aren’t we really managers of our homes, children, and schools?
Less is More.